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Reflecting on the Past Year for Mental Wellness

As 2024 comes to a close, it’s natural to look back and reflect on the year you’ve had. Reflection can be a powerful tool for mental wellness, helping you recognize growth, acknowledge challenges, and set a positive tone and intention for the coming year. Through journaling, gratitude exercises, and thoughtful goal-setting, you can end the year feeling grounded and prepare for what’s next!

Benefits of Reflective Journaling for Mental Wellness

Journaling offers a space to sort through thoughts, process emotions, and gain clarity. As you look back on the year, journaling can help you better understand the ups and downs you’ve experienced, celebrate your wins, and learn from the challenges you faced.

 

Journal Prompts to Reflect on the Past Year:

  • What were the most meaningful moments this year? Reflect on the events, big or small.
  • What challenges did I face, and how did I overcome them? Recognize the strength you’ve shown. 
  • What am I proud of achieving this year? Acknowledge your accomplishments, from personal growth to professional milestones.
  • What lessons did I learn? Consider any new insights or perspectives gained.
  • What and Who I am most grateful for? Focus on the people, experiences, or lessons that brought positivity into your life.

 

Practicing Gratitude: Finding Joy in Small Moments

Gratitude is another powerful way to end the year with a positive outlook. Focusing on the good, even in small doses, can boost your mood and reduce stress. While reflecting on the past year, think of all the good things that have happened and opportunities you’ve had and created.

 

Gratitude Exercises:

Daily Gratitude List: Take a few minutes each day to write down three things you’re grateful for. They don’t have to be big milestones—small moments, like a warm cup of coffee in the morning or a great friend that listened when you needed them counts too. This simple exercise can help you shift your focus to the positives and build a more optimistic mindset.


P.S: Writing down what you’re grateful for each time a moment comes up and putting it in a jar to open on New Years Eve is also a great way to reflect and keep a running tab of all of life’s joys.

Thank You Notes: Consider writing a letter or note to someone who positively impacted your year, expressing your appreciation for them. Even if you don’t send it, the act of writing can help reinforce gratitude and connection.

Lessons Learned: As you look back, you might notice patterns, habits, or mistakes. Reflecting on lessons learned is not about judgement but about embracing growth and learning from our past. Consider areas where you might want to change, and allow yourself to move forward with compassion and a plan.

 

Journal Prompts for Lessons Learned:

  • What’s one area of my life I’d like to approach differently next year? It could be setting better boundaries, practicing more self-care, or communicating with vulnerability.
  • What support do I need to make that change? Identify resources or people who can help you with your goals—whether it’s a friend, a therapist, or a self-help book.

 

Navigating New Year’s Resolutions for Mental Wellness

We often think of new years goals as things to achieve, habits to stop, or routines to create but we should also consider setting realistic, mental health-focused resolutions. Our mindset and mental well-being form the foundation of our lives; when mental health struggles arise, everything else becomes more challenging. These resolutions don’t have to be drastic changes; they can focus on small, meaningful actions that support your well-being.

 

Examples of Mental Health-Focused Resolutions:

Practice Self-Compassion: Commit to being kinder to yourself. Self-compassion means treating yourself as you would a friend—with understanding, support, and patience.

Manage Stress Proactively: Create a toolkit of stress management practices, such as mindfulness, breathing exercises, or physical activity, and build these into your weekly routine.

Explore Therapy: Therapy can be a valuable safe space to process emotions and learn effective coping strategies. 

 

New Year’s Mental Wellness Resolution Journal Prompts:

  • What’s one area of my mental health I want to nurture next year? 
  • What are three things I can choose to see with more self compassion and stop judging myself for?
  • What small, meaningful change can I make that would improve my daily life? 
  • What are the signs to look out for when my mental health begins to decline?
  • How can I check in with myself throughout the year?

Taking time to reflect on your past year with mindfulness, gratitude, and self-compassion allows you to close this chapter on a positive note! Setting gentle, realistic goals for the coming year empowers you to approach the future with intention rather than pressure. Let this season of reflection guide you toward a new year filled with self-care and growth!

Cheers to 2025 & Happy New Years From The Relationship Centre Team!

 

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